Decisions Are Looming — Now What?

Most decisions are in, but I know some of you are still waiting for news. This is your guide to staying grounded, making smart choices, and moving forward with confidence.

If You're Still Waiting: Be Patient, but Be Prepared

As you know, colleges release decisions on very different timelines while you wait and think through your priorities. Before decisions come in, jot down what matters most to you: academic programs, campus culture, financial aid, location, and size. Having that clarity will make your decision much easier.

If Decisions Are In

Congratulations, you have acceptances in hand! Now comes the part that surprises many students: choosing is often harder than applying. Here's how to approach it thoughtfully.

1. Understand Your Financial Aid Packages

Not all aid packages are created equal. Before comparing the bottom-line cost, look closely at:

• How much of the aid is grants vs. loans (grants don't need to be repaid; loans do)

• Whether merit scholarships are renewable each year and under what conditions

• The true cost of attendance, including housing, meals, books, and fees

If a package seems unclear or surprisingly low, call the financial aid office. You can also appeal if your family's financial situation has changed since you applied.

2. Revisit Campuses (If You Can)

Many colleges host admitted student days in April these are genuinely worth attending. Seeing a campus as an accepted student feels different from a high school visit. You can sit in on classes, meet faculty in your intended major, and talk to current students honestly about their experience.

If you can't visit in person, look for virtual admitted student events, reach out to current students through the school's social media or admitted student portals, and explore department-specific pages online.

3. Trust the Whole Picture, Including Your Gut

Rankings, prestige, and your friends' opinions are all things you'll hear a lot right now. But research on college outcomes is clear: students thrive when they find the right fit, a place where they feel engaged, supported, and challenged.

A Word on Waitlists

If you've been waitlisted at a school you really love, it's okay to feel disappointed. Here's how to handle it well:

• Accept a spot on the waitlist only if you're genuinely still interested in the school.

• Send a brief, sincere letter of continued interest to reaffirm your enthusiasm and share any meaningful updates (awards, new achievements, etc.) since you applied.

• Commit to another school you love by May 1. Don't leave yourself without a plan.

Whether you're celebrating, comparing, or still waiting, take a breath. You've done the hard work. This part of the process is about finding the right match, not chasing the most impressive name on an envelope.

If you'd like help evaluating your options, understanding your financial aid offers, or crafting a thoughtful letter of continued interest, I'm here. Reach out and let's talk through it together.